Meet Loubie

Hi, I’m Loubie — founder of Abuse Free Mama, survivor of domestic abuse, single mama and former midwife of 15 years.

After fleeing to refuge with my little boy, I made myself a promise: I would never suffer in silence again — and I would help other women feel less alone in theirs.

Today, I combine professional experience, lived expertise and honest, unfiltered advocacy to support women as they make sense of what happened, reconnect with themselves and begin rebuilding life on their own terms.

My work has contributed to domestic-abuse services and strategy in Leeds, alongside organisations and professionals across women’s support, policing and the justice system. But Abuse Free Mama was built for the woman behind the statistics — the one wondering whether she’s imagining it, whether it really was abuse, and whether she’ll ever feel like herself again.

You are not crazy. You are not weak. And you do not have to heal quietly.

This is the safe, honest support I once needed — and now I’m building it for you.